Frequently Asked Questions 

10 Biblical Behaviors

The husband and wife must treat each other and Jesus Christ and their children with ALL of the 10 Biblical Behaviors of Love every day. If even one of the  10 Biblical Behaviors is NOT functioning, the Family will eventually die. It is like breathing. You cannot decide to stop breathing. You will die.

10 Biblical Behaviors

1. Start Making Mutual Decisions at the Weekly Planning Meeting.; Stop Making Independent Decisions

2. Start Being Unselfish; Stop Being Selfish. Selfishness is the greatest cause of Emotional Divorce.

3. Start Forgiving Each Other; Stop Retaliating Against Each Other

4. Start Scheduling 2 Hours of Time a Day between Husband and Wife; Stop Giving No Time

5. Start Scheduling 2 Hours of Proactive Time between Parents and Children; Stop Giving Passive Time

6. Start Giving More Worship Time between Family and Christ; Stop Giving No Worship Time

7. Start Renewing Your Mind into the Mind of Christ; Stop Your Mind from Following the World

8. Start Pursuing, Romancing and Cherishing Your Wife; Stop Passive Indifference

9. Start Trauma Healing through Christ; Stop Allowing Fear from Past Trauma to Destroy Relationships.

10. Start meeting with others in a Community Group with Accountability.

The Pre Marriage Academy is designed to help Christian engaged couples begin to learn, practice and implement biblical principals for a Covenant Marriage. 

To be completed in the months leading up to you wedding day; and then you transition into the guided Academy that helps you maintain those same practices.

The Christian Marriage Reboot Academy is a Christ-centered marriage training academy, a 6-week, 42-day, 24/7, 1008-hour immersive journey that will renew your minds and unveil the good, acceptable, and perfect will of God (Romans 12:2).

To be eligible for the Christian Marriage Reboot Training Academy, the couple must answer “yes” to four questions: Are you married? Are you both Christians? Are you both willing to prepare together for a lifelong, Chris-Centered Marriage? Are you willing to follow Jesus? If the couple honestly answers “YES” to the 4 questions, they are eligible to register for a Program, Apply Now and Checkout.

The goal of marriage, as ordained by God, is for you and your spouse to become “one person”. The Training Academy teaches that independent decisions by either of you automatically disrespects the other and causes you to withdraw in self-protection slowly becoming separate persons rather than “one person”.  So what is the solution to making independent decisions?  The solution is to make all future decisions by mutual agreement where both spouses must be excited or happy about the decision or you don’t move forward.  Your first thought is that mutual excited decisions are impossible but they are not, if you are smart and creative.  If you follow the Training Academy’s training, your every future decision can made with mutual excited agreement that creates victories after victories versus the constant defeats with independent and reluctant decisions.

Yes. The Training Academy will train you in how to biblically handle negative emotions by training in the Renewing of the Mind Project by Barb Raveling. You will love it. You will be trained to go to Christ first with your problems and “He will make your path straight.”

The Christian Pre Marriage Academy prioritizes in your online shared calendar your 3 love relationships: The Lord Jesus Christ, each other and the family. Your biggest investment in them will be your effort, your energy and your time. The results will be that you more prepared for a Covenant Family, a Christ Centered Marriage, and loving and successful life together. 

Maintaining these relationships and practices are crucial, which is why the Academy exists for after your wedding day. 

Undivided attention in a marriage refers to giving one’s full and complete focus to each other, without distractions or interruptions. This means actively listening and engaging in conversation, showing interest in each other’s thoughts and feelings, and making an effort to understand each other’s perspectives. Undivided attention can help strengthen the bond and deepen the connection between each other, and is an important aspect of a healthy and fulfilling marriage . When both spouses are able to give each other their undivided attention, it can create a sense of mutual respect and support that can help to resolve conflicts and build a strong foundation for a long-lasting and happy marriage.

The Pre-Marriage Academy can be done at your own pace, but the sooner you start and longer you have to practice together the better off you will be.

Topics, lesson and practices are all targeted towards achieving and maintaining a Christ Centered Marriage. 

Topics include a shared calendar, the Mutual Decision Process - which prevents all future arguments, trauma healing, and much more. 

None at this time but there are some in the works. Namely this entire Academy is Open Source, and designed to be put in the hands of ANYONE who would benefit from it. The Academy has already been used in many different community groups who used it to build each other up, keep accountability, and engage in life-long beneficial components of the Academy. 

The Training Academy is very flexible in meeting the needs of different types of families.The resources and training for the 2 hours of Targeted Parenting each day is very specific and comprehensive for each of these groups, especially for Blended Families.